One of the first questions new parents face is: when should my child start daycare? The answer depends on your financial situation, your child's temperament, and — often the elephant in the room — your parental leave length.
The Two Most Common Starting Ages
6–12 weeks: The most common starting point for families with standard US maternity leave (12 weeks FMLA). Infant rooms in quality centers are designed specifically for this age — with ratios of 1:3 or 1:4 and primary caregiver assignments that provide consistency.
12–18 months: Some parents extend leave through a combination of FMLA, short-term disability, and unpaid leave, or have one parent home part-time. Starting around 12-18 months, children have passed peak separation anxiety (which peaks 8-18 months) and may transition more smoothly.
What Research Says About Starting Age
The landmark NICHD Study of Early Child Care (following 1,300 children from birth through age 15) found that quality of care mattered far more than age of entry. Key finding: children in high-quality childcare from early infancy showed no negative outcomes compared to home-reared children — and often showed advantages in cognitive development and vocabulary.
Infant vs Toddler Program: Key Differences
| Factor | Infant Room | Toddler Room |
|---|---|---|
| Age | 6 wks – 12 months | 12 months – 3 years |
| Ratio | 1:3–4 | 1:4–6 |
| Cost | 15–25% higher | Baseline cost |
| Focus | Physical care, sensory development | Language, independence, social skills |
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